After 10 years together and 7 years married, I’m lucky to be able to say that I have no issues with my sex life. It is frequent, spontaneous and fulfilling. I started reading the Let’s Get It On series by Amber Cole, because I thought it might give me some ideas to surprise my husband with.

The premise of Sweaty Mess Sex Games is that a good sex life takes work and effort. It reminds the reader that good sex starts with having a good connection with your partner. When you connect, you create desire and have fun.

For me the only barrier to sex games is my insecurity about discussing sex with my husband. It’s nothing to do with him. My ex did a number on me. Whenever I think about creating a fantasy, I remember the time I tied myself up with a Christmas bow expecting sex under the tree, and instead he just laughed and went to play video games.

I found that the majority of ideas in this book were variations of things my husband and I already do together. If you are in a rut or feeling unimaginative, this would be a good book. If you’re looking for some more spice in an already fulfilling relationship, visit an adult store together. I think it will add more spark.

Rating: 3/5